Thank you for this thoughtful comment! I will look into Tris Harkness and I would love to hear this account. I am also learning about boundaries with ENM and I agree that it would be important to think about how to communicate those effectively. I agree... I have wondered about it in the long term, although I do know that open marriages were popular briefly in the hippy subculture of the 70s... this I find interesting. I think its important we have content that is honest where people can explore what they need and how they feel about these things!