We cannot survive without human love throughout all phases of our lives. — *Information in this article is not intended to substitute professional mental health help. As a therapist, you would think that I would have known about attachment styles. Spoiler alert: I didn’t find out until I was a heaving sobbing mess when my 5-year relationship came crashing down. It was only…

I stumbled onto the “Gentle Femdom” subreddit after two of the submissives I had been playing with at the time talked to me about it. I was recently back at the dungeon and playing. I didn’t think my style was overtly soft, but when I talked to each of the…

My submissive is like a dream cut out of a magazine and pasted on a vision board. His eyes are soft baby blue. His little eyebrows can bend in ways that I didn’t even know were possible. His lips are puffy red little pillows. His face is chiseled. He’s my…

Recently, I embarked on a 31-day challenge for the entire month of March. It was truly a challenging challenge and here’s what it entailed: -I was not allowed to watch Youtube, funny videos on my laptop -I was not allowed to watch Netflix, Hulu, or any other television -I could…

My kitchen table poly is the bomb.com. It started with one partner who was funny, kind, caring, embodied, and believed in the ethical treatment of others whether that was ascribing to anti-racist practices, gender equity, or even just the use of yoga as a tool for the elevation of his…

Can you date as a polyamorous person and have kids someday? — I’m a 27-year-old woman who just got out of a 5-year monogamous relationship. I was probably heading towards marriage and a baby in a baby carriage. In my last relationship, I learned that I have to live my authentic truth and be polyamorous. …

“Do as I say, not as I do,” is a phrase that pretty perfectly fits my recent experience. I have been the boss, the one in charge, the lady Dom, the Queen, and the unquestionable Goddess. With multiple polyamorous relationships and varying degrees of D/s in each relationship, I have…

I have been to a lot of dungeons. I have also met a lot of men in dungeons. I am a femme presenting female-identifying person, and this may disqualify me from writing this article. But I do think I have a few pieces of advice from what I have observed…

I have been to more than a few dungeons. It’s important to know that they are all different. Each has its own set-up, culture, vibe, and leaning. However, there are a few things that many have in common and most would be surprised to learn. 1. Dungeons are not like…