My submissive is like a dream cut out of a magazine and pasted on a vision board. His eyes are soft baby blue. His little eyebrows can bend in ways that I didn’t even know were possible. His lips are puffy red little pillows. His face is chiseled. He’s my…

Recently, I embarked on a 31-day challenge for the entire month of March. It was truly a challenging challenge and here’s what it entailed: -I was not allowed to watch Youtube, funny videos on my laptop -I was not allowed to watch Netflix, Hulu, or any other television -I could…

My kitchen table poly is the bomb.com. It started with one partner who was funny, kind, caring, embodied, and believed in the ethical treatment of others whether that was ascribing to anti-racist practices, gender equity, or even just the use of yoga as a tool for the elevation of his…

Can you date as a polyamorous person and have kids someday? — I’m a 27-year-old woman who just got out of a 5-year monogamous relationship. I was probably heading towards marriage and a baby in a baby carriage. In my last relationship, I learned that I have to live my authentic truth and be polyamorous. I am still not so sure about…

“Do as I say, not as I do,” is a phrase that pretty perfectly fits my recent experience. I have been the boss, the one in charge, the lady Dom, the Queen, and the unquestionable Goddess. With multiple polyamorous relationships and varying degrees of D/s in each relationship, I have…

I have been to a lot of dungeons. I have also met a lot of men in dungeons. I am a femme presenting female-identifying person, and this may disqualify me from writing this article. But I do think I have a few pieces of advice from what I have observed…

I have been to more than a few dungeons. It’s important to know that they are all different. Each has its own set-up, culture, vibe, and leaning. However, there are a few things that many have in common and most would be surprised to learn. 1. Dungeons are not like…

Written by a therapist, recommended by other therapists — My latest pet peeve is these robots that can write content for the internet(ChatGPT), conglomerating a bunch of information and compiling it into an article. My other pet peeve is the companies that are creating content just to get your business. My greatest pet peeve is getting into the mental…

Navigating my sexual fears in ENM relationships — To those who have been reading a lot of my writing, you already know this. But to everyone else, here’s a snapshot: I’m 27 and recently went through a huge breakup. I was in a 5-year relationship which was almost 1/5 of my life. I still miss him. It’s been…